Actions speak louder than words

Let's face it, we girls love to hear sweet talks..... About how beautiful we are, how smart we are and that our prince will love us forever. But words are just words, they do not carry weight if they are no followed by actions. Solid actions. It's extremely easy to say that you love a person when he or she is " perfect", what about 20 years later, or when something unpleasant really happened???

It is always safe to back up your statements with real -life example. I got myself one.

Selina Ren, from the group, S.H.E. She suffered from serious burnt injuries during while shooting  a drama musical.

Before : Youthful, beautiful, cheerful

After : 53% body parts burnt, became plump, had to wear nylon tough material all the time, couldn't walk for  a long time.

Before that, she had everything. Looks, talent, and a prince, whom she was engaged to. A dashing young lawyer.

After that, her career ( singer)  was in jeopardy..... There's a high possibility of her not even surviving!!!!! ( Let alone walking or even getting married!!)

Her father described her critical condition : Both her legs looked like Lady Gaga's meat attire, with burnt and dead skin wrapping over her flesh. It was plain disgusting. 

They were suppose to be married that year itself, but the fire stole their dreams.  Everyone was equally sad for Selina.

But Selina herself may not know this then, that her choice to get married to the lawyer was indeed one of the best choice made in her entire life. 

That lawyer, means what he says. He demonstrated his love towards her  through his actions that he indeed love her for who she is. Never a single day did he leave her alone, he massaged her, hugged her, assured her that he will NEVER LEAVE her. 

Even though Selina's father repeatedly  asked him to break their  engagement , but he paid him no heed. And that man, the man who barely shed a tear in the past, became a cry baby because of her.

God's grace is so wonderful that Selina has recovered gradually  and they are now both happily married. Perhaps some might say that their marriage will not last long or what so ever, but I offer my sincere prayers and best wishes to them.  The fact that he is willing to take care of her during that period is something beyond any logic in this world. Oh, Selina is so blessed to have a man like him.!

So guys, don't just talk about words. Don't just tell us " I love you" and pretend that everything will be fine. ( I mean continue to say that, but back up your words with actions!! )

=)